Na mahareng a ka a kopanela liphate?
Ho kopanela liphate, ha ho sebelisoa ho amana le bana ba babeli le bana, hangata ho bolela mokhoa oa ho hatisa maikutlo a thobalano ea motho ka mong. Ho kopanela liphate hase mokhoa o motle oa ho kopanela liphate .
Ho ea ka American Psychological Association (APA), ho kopanela liphate ho ka hlahisa mefuta e mene:
- Ha motho a nka hore ke habohlokoa feela ho tsoa ho eena ho kopanela liphate.
- Ha ngoana a lebeletsoe kapa a khothalletsoa ho etsa kapa ho apara liphate.
- Ha motho a tšoaroa e le ntho ea thobalano ho e-na le hore e be motho ea feletseng.
- Ha litšobotsi tsa 'mele li nkoa e le eona feela tšoaetso ea ho kopanela liphate.
Basali le banna ba ka hlaseloa ke thobalano.
Poleloana "ho kopanela liphate" e boetse e sebelisetsoa ho bua ka mofuta oa mokhoa oa ho itšireletsa maikutlong oo batho ba sebelisang boitšoaro ba thobalano e le mokhoa oa ho laola matšoenyeho a bona.
Moetlong oa rona, haholo-holo ka lebaka la setso sa pop le mefuta e meng ea mecha ea phatlalatso, ho ka bonahala e le ntho e ke keng ea khoneha ho qoba ho ba le kelello eo u lekanyang ho kopanela liphate le boitlhompho. Liphatlalatso li sebetsa tlasa taelo ea hore "thobalano e rekisa." Limakasine li fana ka malebela a ho kopanela liphate joaloka li-lollipops, mme lihlooho tsa litaba li atisa ho khothalletsa lihlooho tse tšepisang hore li tla shebahala li le matla haholo, li-currier, sexier. Lichelete tsohle tsa libanka tse ke keng tsa qojoa hore bareki ba bona ba hlaselang ba tla fumana hore ba hloka ho lokisoa.
Mme melaetsa ena kaofela e fetisetsoa ho thelevishene le lifiliming.
Ho bonahala ho le thata ho qoba ho ba le maikutlo ana , esita le ho se tsebe letho.
Nka Sireletsa Taba ea Ka Joang ho Kopanela Liphate?
U ka qoba ho reka ho kopanela liphate ka ho khetheha ka ho qoba ho phekola hype tsohle.
U ka boela ua qoba ho kopanela liphate tsa lipakeng tsa hau ka ho ba thusa hore ba ithute ka bophelo bo botle ba ho kopanela liphate ha ba sa le banyenyane, le ka ho ba ruta hore ba fapane ho feta ponahalo ea bona, le ho feta ho feta kamoo ba kopanelang liphate le ' o kene.
Ha e le hantle, pejana u qala ho ruta ngoana ka bophelo bo botle ba ho kopanela liphate , ho ba le boikutlo bo botle ba ho ikhalala ho tla ba teng, 'me ba tla ba le tšepo le boitlhompho. Ba tla boela ba be le monyetla o moholo oa ho etsa liqeto tse bohlale ka thobalano, kapa thobalano ha nako e fihla. Ba tla boela ba tsebe ho itšireletsa ho batho ba hlekefetsang ka thobalano.
Re batho ba thobalano ho tloha ha re tsoaloa. Qala ho ruta ngoana oa hao le uena kajeno hore ba etse liqeto tse nepahetseng hosane.
Mohloli:
Mokhatlo oa American Psychological Association. Ho kopanela liphate tsa banana: Kakaretso ea tsamaiso. http://www.apa.org/pi/women/programs/girls/report.aspx?item=2