Ho bala ka mokhoa o phollatsi ho bolela bokhoni ba ho bala ka potlako, ka mokhoa o bonolo, habonolo, le ka polelo. E le ho bala ka mokhoa o phollatsi, 'mali o lokela ho utloisisa hore na matšoao a leqepheng lena (litlhaku) a amana joang le molumo oa puo, hore na melumo eo e kopantsoe hammoho joang ho etsa mantsoe, seo mantsoe a se bolelang, le seo mantsoe a se kopaneng polelong bolela.
Methati ea ho bala Ho tsitsa
Lintlheng tsa pele tsa ho ithuta ho bala , 'mali o tsepamisitse maikutlo ho ho hlalosa mantsoe a leqepheng lena, hore ha a na matla a mangata a kelello ao a sa a sebeliseng.
Ho khetholla mantsoe, 'mali a qala ho utloa mantsoe - o kopanya melumo ho mangolo ao a a bonang' me o leka ho kopanya mantsoe ao le ho etsa mantsoe. Joale o tlameha ho tseba hore na lentsoe le bolela'ng.
Haeba 'mali a kopana le lentsoe le sa tloaelehang, ho khetholla ho thata haholoanyane hobane joale o lokela ho leka ho utloisisa moelelo oa lentsoe ho tsoa moelelong oa taba, ho tsoa mantsoe a potolohileng. Leha ho le joalo, seo se bolela hore 'mali o tlameha ho khetholla mantsoe a potolohileng - le ho a hopola, ebe o utloisisa se boleloang ke lentsoe le sa tloaelehang. U ka bona hore ho bala ho na le ho hongata haholo.
Ho khetholletsa lihlahisoa le ho bala le ho hlalosa
Ha 'mali a e-ba molemo ha a khetholla mantsoe, o tla khona ho bala mantsoe kapele. Empa seo ha se bolele hore o tla khona ho bala ka polelo. Ho bala ka polelo ho bolela hore ngoana ha a balle monotone le mantsoe 'ohle a lekanngoa.
Ho tseba hore na ke mantsoe afe a lokelang ho hatisa ho hloka hore 'mali a utloisise se bolelang, eseng feela ka mantsoe a le mong, empa ka lipolelo tsohle esita le litemana tsohle. O tlameha ho utloisisa bohlokoa ba mantsoe le lipolelo.
Seo se bolela hore ha a bala pale, o tlameha ho utloisisa pale.
Hlokomela phapang pakeng tsa lipalo tsena tse peli tse tsoang ho tse nyenyane tse tharo tsa likolobe :
- "Ke tla." Hape, "Ke tla.
- "Ke tla tletleba! Ke tla kgotla, mme ke tlose ntlo ea hao fatše!"
Ha u bala ka lekhetlo la pele, ngoana oa hlokomela lentsoe ka leng. Eo ke e 'ngoe ea mehato ea pele ea ho bala. Hona joale, ngoana o khona ho khetholla mantsoe a le mong, empa ha a khone ho beha mantsoe hammoho ho hlahisa moelelo. Hona hase ho bala hantle.
Ha ho baloa habeli, ngoana ha a khone ho khetholla mantsoe a le mong feela empa o boetse o khona ho utloisisa hore na mantsoe a sebetsa joang ho etsa moelelo. Ha a lemohe feela mantsoe, empa lihlopha tsa mantsoe. O tseba hore na ke mantsoe afe a etsang polelo 'me o tseba moo ho hatisoang teng.
E le hore ngoana a tsebe ho bala hantle, ngoana o lokela ho itokisetsa hantle. Seo se bolela hore boko ba hae bo tlameha ho ntlafatsoa ka mokhoa o lekaneng. Ke kahoo ho balang kapele ho nkoa e le letšoao la bonono .