Ho bontša feela ho se kopanele liphate ha ho sebetse
Ha ho tluoa tabeng ea ho bua ka thobalano, thibelo ea bokhachane le botsoalle ba bacha, ho bonahala eka batsoali ba atisa ho qobelloa ho etsa liphoso tse sa tsejoeng . E 'ngoe ea liphoso tsena e amana feela le ho bua ka ho ithiba. Ha ba botsoa ka taba ena, bacha ba arabile ka matla hore ba hloka ho utloa ho eketsehileng ho batsoali ba bona ho feta "ho se kopanele liphate." Ha e le hantle, ena ke sebaka se seng moo bacha ba ikutloang hore batsoali ba bona ba tlameha ho ba fa molemo oa ho belaela.
Batsoali ha baa lokela ho itumella hore ba oele kotsing ea ho lumela hore bana ba bona ba tla fumana molaetsa o tsoakaneng kapa ba ferekanngoa haeba bobeli ba tšebetso ea thibelo ea bokhachane le boithaopo li tšohloa ka nako e le 'ngoe. Bontša ngoan'a hao hore o hlompha bohlale ba hae bo lekana ho kopanela lipuisanong tsena tse nang le boikarabelo. Ho ea ka likōpo tse boletsoeng ke bacha ba bangata:
Batsoali - U Lokela ho Etsa ho Eketsehileng Thuto ka Boitšoaro
Kea hlokomela hore sena se ka ba lerata le thellang. Ke habohlokoa hore uena (joaloka motsoali) o hlakisetse mocha oa hao tšepo le litekanyetso tsa hau ho latela boitšoaro ba bona. Ho loketse hore u arolelane maikutlo a hau, boitšoaro le litebello tsa hau ka thobalano le ngoan'a hao. Leha ho le joalo, ho ka 'na ha e-ba molemo hore u qale ho hlaka ka maikutlo a hau a ho kopanela liphate le litekanyetso pele u e-na le moqoqo ona. Ha u e-na le puisano ena, etsa bonnete ba hore u hlalosetsa hore na ke hobane'ng ha u ikutloa ka tsela eo ue etsang (ena hase nako ea "hobane ke boletse joalo"), u batle ho kenya letsoho mocha oa hau le ho mamela seo ba se buang.
Leha ho le joalo, ke lakatsa eka ho ka ba bonolo hakaalo. Ka bomalimabe, lefatsheng la kajeno, batsoali ba lokela ho etsa ho hongata ho feta ho bolella ngoana oa hau hore a se ke a kopanela liphate. Ena ke nako eo u lokelang ho bua ka thobalano le thibelo ea bokhachane:
- Ka kopo
- Ka kholiseho
- Hape u tšepahale haeba u sa tsebe hantle ka ntho e itseng
Etsa hore e be Moqoqo
Ho ka boela ha e-ba molemo ho buisana kamoo u ikutloang kateng ha u sa le mocha ...
ho hopola ho fetoha ha linako. Etsa sohle se matleng a hao ho etsa sena moqoqo ho e-na le ho bua.
- Botsa ngoana oa hao hore a mo tsebe
- Mamela
- E-ba le tlhompho
- Ntle le ho bua ka tšireletseho le bokhachane, bua ka maikutlo a ka tsamaisanang le kamano ea thobalano
- Nahana ka ntlha ea hau ea mocha
- Khothaletsa lipotso mme u arabele seo ba lokelang ho se bua
Ho ka ba molemo ho tseba hore 53% ea bacha ba re batsoali ba bona kapa litumelo tsa bona tsa bolumeli, boitšoaro le litekanyetso li susumetsa liqeto tsa bona tsa thobalano ka ho fetisisa. Bacha bao batsoali ba bona ba fanang ka melaetsa e hlakileng mabapi le bohlokoa ba ho ipholoha ho ka etsahala hore ba liehe ho ba le phihlelo ea pele ea ho kopanela liphate, mme batsoali ba buang ka thibela pelehi ba na le monyetla oa ho ba le bacha ba sebelisang thibelo ea bokhachane ha qetellong ba khetha ho kopanela liphate.
Lipatlisiso
Michelle M. Isley et al. o ile a fumana hore ho itokolla-thuto feela ha e lekane. Phuputso ea bona e senoletse hore bacha ba lumelang hore ba fumane thuto ea thobalano eo ONLY e nang le tlhahisoleseding e mabapi le mekhoa ea thibelo ea bokhachane e ne e le monyetla o moholo oa ho sebelisa mokhoa o ka tšeptjoang oa thibelo ea bokhachane pele ba kopanela liphate. Ho bonahala eka bacha ba neng ba e-na le lipuisano tsa ho kopanela liphate, tse neng li kenyelletsa lipuisano tse matla mabapi le boithaopo, ho ne ho se bonolo hore ba sebelise tšebetso ea tšebetso ea tšoaetso nakong e tlang ea ho kopanela liphate.
Dintlha ena e fana ka maikutlo a hore melaetsa ea ho itlosa-feela e atisa ho hlakola, kapa e fokotsa, liphello tse ka ba molemo tse fetisetsoang ke boitsebiso ka mekhoa ea thibelo ea bokhachane. Ho bonahala eka, ho hatella ngoan'a hao hore a se ke a kopanela liphate, haholo-holo ha ho se na tlhahiso-leseling mabapi le thibelo ea bokhachane, e ka lebisa tlhobelisong e sa tsitsang ea thibelo ea bokhachane.
- Thuto ea ho kopanela liphate ka ho feletseng le khahlanong le boithaopo-Thuto feela
Phuputso ena e boetse e bontšitse hore ha batsoali ba bua ka litaba tse amanang le thobalano ka botlalo (eseng feela ho ithiba), ho na le menyetla e phahameng ea hore bacha ba bona ba sebelise mokhoa o ka tšeptjoang oa thibelo ea bokhachane. Liphuputso tsena tse tebileng tsa ho kopanela liphate pakeng tsa batsoali le bacha (tse fetang ka batsoali ho bolella bacha hore ba se ke ba kopanela liphate) li thusa ho khothalletsa boitšoaro bo bobe ba ho kopanela liphate ho bacha.
Batsoali ba lokela ho bua ka mekhoa ea thibelo ea bokhachane hobane bacha ba sebelisang mekhoa ena ba atisa ho etsa joalo ka nako e telele. Moqoqo ona ha oa lokela ho boloka bacha ba bacha feela.
- Banna ba bangata ba lilemong tsa bocha ba bontšitse tsebo e lekanyelitsoeng ka li-hormone tsa thibelo ea bokhachane (ho lumela likhopolo-taba tse ngata ka pilisi, ka mohlala) kapa ba se ke ba tseba hore na khetho ea li-hormone e teng. Ha batsoali ba fa bana ba bona ba lilemong tsa bocha boitsebiso bona, bo tla ba thusa hore ba ikutloe ba sireletsehile haholoanyane litabeng tsa bona - sena se tla thusa ho sebetsa e le mohato oa bohlokoa ho thusa banna bana ba bacha hore ba fane ka lipuisano tse nang le boikarabello mabapi le thibelo ea bokhachane le likharebe tsa bona.
Bua ka likhohlopo
Qetellong, ho bonahala eka bacha ba keneng lipuisanong le litho tsa malapa ka likhohlopo ba ka khona ho sebelisa likhohlopo ka boeona. Kahoo, qetellong ea ka ... ha batsoali ba bua ka mokhoa oa ho sebelisa likhohlopo kapa ho reka likhohlopo (ho e-na le ho lebisa tlhokomelo ho boithaopo), tšebeliso ea likhohlopo tsa bacha e eketseha.
E le ho ntšusumetsa ho tsena tsohle, Mokhatlo oa American Academy of Pediatrics, Komiti ea Bacha, o tšehetsa le ho khothaletsa lingaka ho eletsa bacha hore ba sebelise ka tsela e nepahetseng le e tsitsitseng ea thibelo ea pelehi le likhohlopo har'a batho ba kopanelang liphate kapa ba shebaneng le thobalano . Kaha lipatlisiso li tšehetsa ka ho hlakileng hore batsoali ba ka susumetsa ka tsela e nepahetseng hore na bacha ba bona ba bacha ba kopanela liphate tse sireletsehileng tsa thobalano ha ba kopanela liphate, batsoali le bacha ba lokela ho khothaletsoa ho bua ka lipuisano tseo mocha a neng a e-na le ngaka ea hae nakong ea ho khethoa ha hae.
Ntlha ea bohlokoa mona, batsoali: Ke nako ea ho fetela lipuo tse ling tsa ho ithiba:
- Ngoana oa hau ha a batle ho utloa hore a se ke a kopanela liphate.
- Ngoana oa hau o hloka tlhaloso e nepahetseng ea thibelo ea bokhachane 'me o lokela ho khothaletsoa hore a sebelise thibelo ea pelehi.
- Bacha ba lokela ho utloisisa hore na ho ima ho etsahala joang .
- Thuso e matlafatsa litsebo tsa mocha oa ho buisana, kahoo a ka bua ka kholiseho ka tšebeliso ea thibelo ea thibelo ea thibelo ea thibelo ea thibelo ea thibelo ea thibelo ea thibelo ea thibelo ea thibelo ea thibelo ea thibelo ea thibelo ea thibelo ea thibelo ea bokhachane.
- Bacha ba rutoang ka mekhoa e sireletsehileng ea ho kopanela liphate ka batsoali ba bona ba ka 'na ba kopanela boitšoarong bona ka bobona.
- Etsa ho fetang ho bua ka ho ithiba - sireletsa ngoana oa hau le ho mo thusa hore a qale ho etsa khetho ea bophelo bo botle le ba boikarabello.
Lisebelisoa
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