Na u nahana hore pefo ea mohlankana ea ratanang e ke ke ea etsahala ho mora kapa morali oa hau? Nahana hore o sa le mocha hoo a ke keng a etsa joalo, kapa a ke ke a etsahala hobane ke moshanyana? Lipalo-palo tsa sechaba tse tsoang liphuthehong tsa US bakeng sa Tlhokomelo le Thibelo ea Maloetse lilemong tsa bocha ba pepenene li bua pale e fapaneng.
Ho Etsahala'ng ha Motho a E-na le Bothata ba ho Hlekefetsoa?
Lipalo-palo tsa morao-rao tse mabapi le tlhekefetso ea bacha ba ratanang li bua pale e bohloko:
- Mosali e mong ho ba leshome ba leshome le mohlankana e mong le e mong ho ba 11 ba lumela hore o na le liketso tse mabifi nakong ea selemo sa selemo se fetileng. Mocha e mong ho ba bararo o re ba tseba motho e mong ea hlasetsoeng kapa ea utloisitsoeng bohloko ke motho ea ratanang le eena.
- Motho a le mong ho ba bahlano ba lilemo li 13 le 14 ba kileng ba kena kamanong ba re ba tseba motho ea otlileng ka bohale ke mohlankana kapa kharebe.
- Ngoana e mong ho ba bahlano o lumela hore o hlekefelitsoe maikutlong selemong se fetileng.
- Bana ba lilemo li 11 ho isa ho tse 14 ba 'nileng ba e-ba likamanong, ba 62% ba tseba metsoalle e' nile ea hlekefetsoa ka mohlankana kapa kharebe.
- Hoo e ka bang ngoana a le mong ho bahlano ba lilemong tsa bocha ba 'nile ba hlekefetsoa' meleng kapa ho kopanela liphate ke molekane oa bona.
- Basali ba 70% ba lilemong tsa bocha ba 'nileng ba hlaseloa ka thobalano ba tseba mohlaseli oa bona. Mohlaseli e ne e le motsoalle, mohlankana kapa motho ea tloaelehileng.
- Ba fetang halofo ea banana bao ho buisanoeng le bona ba ile ba tlaleha liketso tse mabifi kamanong ea bona-e bolelang hore eena le molekane oa hae ba ne ba le mabifi.
Ho feta ka tlhekefetso ea 'mele le tlhekefetso
Ntle le tlhekefetso ea 'meleng, bacha ba bangata ba laola likamano tse hlekefetsang kapa tsa maikutlo. Ho lla le ho khaola ke letšoao le le leng leo motho a ka le bonang, empa hape ke habohlokoa hore batsoali ba hlokomele matšoao a ho tšoenyeha kapa ho tepella maikutlong.
Tlhekefetso ea bacha le ho ba mabifi e etsahala hohle ho bacha ba makatsang.
Ke habohlokoa hore batsoali ba tsebe lipalo-palo, lipontšo tseo molekane oa hau ea lilemong tsa bocha a li hlekefetsang , hore na phetoho ea tlhekefetso kamanong e shebahala joang, le hore na u lokela ho sheba eng ha u nahana hore ngoan'a hao o hlekefetsoa. Batsoali ba rutehileng ba ka thusa ho emisa seoa sena sa tlhekefetso lichabeng tsa bacha.
Lisebelisoa:
Khetha Tlhompho: Ho Etsa Lintlha Tse Senyang Tlhekefetso. Litsi tsa Tlhokomelo ea Maloetse. http://chooserespect.engagethecrowd.com/scripts/teens/statistics.asp
Tlhekefetso ea Bacha. Mokhatlo oa National Youth Violence Prevention Resource Centre. http://www.safeyouth.org/scripts/faq/dateviolfacts.asp#9
Tlhekefetso ea Bacha ea Bohlankana: Ho Hlahloba ka ho Fetisisa Kamano ea Bacha ea Lerato. Lefapha la Toka la United States, Ofisi ea Toka. https://www.nij.gov/journals/261/pages/teen-dating-violence.aspx
Tween Relationship Study. Teen Dating Abuse Hotline. http://www.loveisrespect.org/wp-content/uploads/2008/07/tru-tween-teen-study-feb-081.pdf