Bo-nkhono le bo-ntate-moholo ba tlameha ho sebetsana le litaba ka tlhokomelo
Ke tlokotsi ho bo-nkhono le bo-ntate-moholo ha ba haneloa ho kopana le litloholo. E ka ba ho utloisang bohloko ho litloholo, hape. Le hoja ho ipelaetsa bakeng sa litokelo tsa ho etela ke monyetla oa ho qoba likhohlano tsa lelapa joalo ke ntho e lakatsehang haholo.
Sebetsana-Boitšoaro ba ho Senya ke Bo-nkhono le Bo-ntate-moholo
Ka linako tse ling batsoali ba nepahetse ho latola bo-nkhono le bo-ntate-moholo hore ba ikopanye le litloholo.
Batho ba etsang thobalano, lino tse tahang kapa ba nang le lithethefatsi hangata ba hloekisa liketso tsa bona hobane feela e e-ba bo-nkhono le bo-ntate-moholo, 'me batsoali ba lokeloa ke ho se batle bana ba bona ba ba potolohile.
Batsoali ba boetse ba lokela ho hana ho buisana le bo-nkhono le bo-ntate-moholo ba hanyetsang melao ea batsoali ka ts'ireletso. Bo-nkhono le bo-ntate-moholo ba tsamaisang litloholo ntle le ho sebelisa lithibelo tse nepahetseng tsa koloi ha baa lokela ho lumelloa ho khanna litloholo kae kapa kae. E tsoanang le molao o mong le o mong oa tšireletso o thehiloeng ke batsoali, ebang bo-nkhono le bo-ntate-moholo ba lumellana le bona kapa che. Haeba tlhekefetso e sa kholo haholo, batsoali ba ka 'na ba nka ho lumella nkhono le bo-ntate-moholo hore ba bone litloholo, empa ba le tlas'a maemo a laoloang.
Liketso tse ling tsa bo-nkhono le bo-nkhono le bo-ntate-moholo ba ka qabellang likhohlano tsa lelapa habonolo li akarelletsa tse latelang
- Ho thibela bolaoli ba batsoali kapa ho khothalletsa bana ho se mamele batsoali
- Ho bua hampe ka litho tse ling tsa lelapa, tse kang batsoali, bo-ntate-moholo kapa bo-ntate-moholo ba bang
- Ho hana ho latela melao ea batsoali bakeng sa bana mabapi le ho ja, ho ba le thelevishene, linako tsa ho robala le tse ling
- Ho fa litloholo limpho tseo batsoali ba sa li amoheleng
- Ho qobella batsoali hore ba kopane le bona, joalo ka ho etela bosiu, ha batsoali ba le leqe.
Malapa a lokela ho khona ho sebetsana le litaba tsena tse tebileng ntle le ho khaola maqhama pakeng tsa bo-ntate-moholo le litloholo, empa molemo o motle ke ho qoba boitšoaro bo joalo pele.
Litšokelo ho Fihlella ka Tloaelehileng
Ho senya boitšoaro bo bobe ba bo-nkhono le bo-ntate-moholo, tebello ea molao ke hore bo-nkhono le bo-ntate-moholo ba fumana litloholo tsa bona ka motsoali eo e leng ngoana oa bona. Sena se lebeletsoe hore e be 'nete malapeng a tiileng le maemong ao batsoali ba seng ba le hammoho. Leha ho le joalo, ka linako tse ling, motsoali ea sebeletsang e le ntate-moholo o kenella le litloholo ha a lahlehetsoe le bona hape. Sena se ka etsahala ka mabaka a 'maloa, se senyang ka ho fetisisa, ha e le hantle, e le lefu la motsoali. Maemo a mang a thata a kenyelletsa:
- Batsoali ha ba nyaloe, 'me ntate ha a fumane litokelo tsa hae tsa botsoali.
- Motsoali o tlohetse litokelo tsa hae tsa botsoali.
- Motsoali o koaletsoe chankaneng.
- Motsoali o thibetsoe ho bona ngoana ka lebaka la tšebeliso e mpe ea lithethefatsi, tlōlo ea thobalano kapa ntho e tšoanang.
- Motsoali ea nang le chankana o tsamaea hōle le nkhono le bo-ntate-moholo.
- Motsoali ea atisang ho fana ka litloholo tsa litloholo o tsamaea hōjana.
Boemo bo bong bo tloaelehileng bo etsang hore bo-nkhono le bo-ntate-moholo ba khaoloe ke litloholo tsa bona ke ha batsoali ba sebelisoa hampe. Batsoali ba sebelisang tlhaho ba batla ho boloka mekhoa ea bona e le sephiri. Mohlala o tloaelehileng ke hore qalong ba sebelisa nkhono le bo-nkhono le bona e le bahlokomeli, ba lumella batsoali hore ba be le bolokolohi ba ho itloaetsa.
Haeba bo-nkhono le bo-ntate-moholo ba ntse ba tseba se etsahalang, kapa ho lemala ha batsoali ho ba thata hoo ho leng thata ho pata, hangata batsoali ba robala le bo-nkhono le bo-nkhono le bo-nkhono le bona, ba hlokomoloha monyetla oa ho pepeseha. Ts'ebetso e joalo ea malapa e ka ba bobe haholo 'me e ka beha bo-nkhono le bo-ntate-moholo boemong bo sa khonehang ba ho qosa litokelo tsa ho etela.
Likhohlano tse ling tsa malapa
Likhohlano tse ling tse tebileng haholo li ka boela tsa baka likamano tsa malapa. Ho ea ka setsebi sa kelello ea bitsoang Marsha L. Shelov, maemo a mararo a ka 'na a qabana pakeng tsa batsoali le bo-nkhono le bo-nkhono:
- Batsoali le bo-nkhono le bo-nkhono le bona ha ba lumellane ka litaba tse kang bolumeli.
- Ho na le botho bo pakeng tsa nkhono le bo-ntate-moholo le motsoali; 'mè matsale / mohoehali / mohoehali oa liphapang li atile haholo.
- Lintoa tsa khale tsa motsoali le bana "li theohela molokong o latelang."
Tsena ke litaba tse ka bakang likhohlano tse tebileng tsa malapa empa hangata li ka senyeha haeba bo-nkhono le bo-ntate-moholo ba ntse ba e-na le boipiletso le ba amohelehang. Le hoja ho le thata ho feta ho bo-nkhono le bo-nkhono le bo-ntate-moholo ba lumelang hore ba nepahetse, ho ba le ho honyenyane ho khetha ho tlohela ho kopana le litloholo. Keletso ea malapa e ka ba molemo ho sebetsana le likhohlano tse hlileng li utloisang bohloko, haholo-holo haeba li akarelletsa lintoa tse sa rarolloeng ke batsoali le bana.
Likhohlano tse ling tsa lelapa li amehile ka chelete. Nkhono le bo-nkhono le bo-ntate-moholo ba fanang ka chelete ho bana ba bona ka nako e ' Bo-nkhono le bo-ntate-moholo ba khethang ho fana ka thuso ea lichelete ba lokela ho fana ka bolokolohi 'me ba qobe ho sebelisa chelete e le mokhoa oa ho laola. Ntle ho molao molao ona, ke hore ha bo-nkhono le bo-nkhono le bo-ntate-moholo ba lumellana ho lefella sekolo se ikemetseng, k'holejeng, kapa lithuto tse khethehileng kapa ho koetlisa litloholo tsa bona. Maemong ana, ba na le tokelo ea ho batla hore monehelo oa bona o sebelisoe ha o khethiloe.
Ka lehlakoreng le leng, batsoali ba ka 'na ba sebelisana le litloholo ka tsela e ts'oanang, ka ho ts'oseletsa ho hana ho ea kopana ntle le litlhoko tsa lichelete. Batsoali ba fumaneng mekoloto ho bo-nkhono le bo-ntate-moholo ba ka khaola metsoalle ho fokotsa khatello ea ho lefa mekoloto. Chelete leha e le efe ea lichelete pakeng tsa meloko e lokela ho talingoa ka leihlo lintoeng tse ka hlahisoang.
Likhohlano Tse Tloaelehileng Tsa Batho kapa Mathata a Kelello?
Batsoali le bo-nkhono le bo-nkhono le bo-ntate-moholo ba kenang likhohlano ka nako e ' Lits'oants'o tse tloaelehileng ke hore motho e mong ke motho ea leshano, o na le maikutlo a ferekanyang maikutlo kapa o na le bothata ba botho ba narcissistic. Hangata liqoso tse joalo li bonoa litlatsong tse rometsoeng Inthaneteng ho ba amehang likhohlanong tsa lelapa. Ka nako e 'ngoe batho ba nang le bothata ba' nile ba fumanoa ba e-na le bothata, 'me ka linako tse ling motho o bapala kelello ea kelello ea ts'oaetso. Haeba motsoali kapa ntate-moholo-moholo a kenella phehisano e le kannete a kula, boiteko bohle bo lokela ho etsoa ho fumana thuso. Ka lehlakoreng le leng, ho lekanyetsa liqoso tse joalo khahlanong le motho ka lebaka la ho se lumellane ho etselletsa batho 'me ho ka ba le liphello tse khahlanong le tsona. Ho molemo haholo ho tsepamisa mohopolo ho rarolla liqabang.
Litlhoko tsa ho Fela
Bothata bo tloaelehileng pakeng tsa meloko e bakoa ke bo-nkhono le bo-ntate-moholo ba sa hlompheng meeli. Mofuta ona oa tlōlo ea molao o ka tlōla meeli ea 'mele, e kang ho theohela malapeng le ho kena ntle le ho kokota. Ha meeli e ntse e arohane ke meeli pakeng tsa ho ba motsoali le ho ba le bana-ntate-moholo, likhetho li tebile haholo.
Boemo bona bo atisa ho bonahala ha batsoali ba banyenyane ba hloka thuso le bo-nkhono le bo-ntate-moholo ba nka boikarabelo ba ho ba le bana. Ka nako e ' Hangata ba fana ka tlhokomelo ea bana 'me hangata ba thusoa ka lichelete. Haeba batsoali ba etsa qeto ea ho fumana litokelo tsa bona tsa botsoali, ka linako tse ling batsoali ba bo-ntate-moholo ba thatafalloa ke ho ba tlohela. Hangata phello ke hore bo-nkhono le bo-ntate-moholo bao e leng khale ba le haufi le litloholo tsa bona ba tlosoa ho bona ke batsoali ba tsietsing ea ho khutlisa bana ba bona. Bo-nkhono le bo-ntate ba bohlale ba qoba mekhoa e joalo ka ho kōpa mamello ea batsoali ha ba ntse ba etsa phetoho le ka ho hlahisa monyetla oa ho thabela litloholo tsa bona e le bo-ntate-moholo ho e-na le ho jara boikarabelo bo bongata ba karolo ea batsoali.